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Ever Changing...

“Sometimes you gotta lose ‘til you win. It’s alright, it’s alright it’s alright…. It’ll be alright again. I’m okay. I’m okay, it’ll be alright again”

Sugarland’s new album is great. SO many good songs! And songs that I feel relate to my life at this exact point in time. I love that feeling of others knowing what I’m going through and that I’m not alone in my emotions or predicaments. :)

The reason I put the quote at the beginning is that I feel that I keep losing when it comes to a Social Work job. I just don’t understand why I can’t find one. Is my resume/cover letter crap? Do organizations think I don’t have enough experience, are there just that many more qualified people applying? I’m becoming unsure if I’m supposed to be in social work or not… Should I go to grad school? Will that allow me to get a social work position or will that still not be enough? I’ve thought about opening a daycare lately. There are so many things I would need to get together in order to see that happen: A new place to live, capital to get toys and diapers and child-proofing measures, rent money, a guarantee that people would utilize me, etc. And licensing, but that would be the least of my worries. It’s only $50 and I’m sure I would pass anything they could throw at me :) But, even then, I still have the worry: is this what I’m supposed to be doing? It’s an annoying worry to have because there is no way for me to know.

I “quit” my overnight (ON) nanny job this week. I write quit like that because it’s not really over yet, but I believe that Saturday night should be my last night. It was tough: Deciding to quit and quitting. Thinking about quitting really put into perspective just how dear I hold to expendable income. I’ve had a few nervous moments over it. But, at the same time, it makes my life so much less complicated! Not necessarily the lack of money part, because that will throw a kink into a lot of my plans, but definitely the time and scheduling of my time. I have my nights free! I haven’t known what consecutive-nights-to-myself look like since the beginning of August. And let me tell you, it’s rather freeing. I feel like I’m not just running from place to place to place and back again. This week’s been a bit of a doozy in that I haven’t nannyed a lot because Erin has had to be at school at 6 am all this week and she has a friend who needed to pick up some extra cash, so she let her pick up the early morning shifts. Let me tell you, I’m definitely NOT complaining as it’s a nice change to be able to sleep in until 9:30/10. I’m so thankful that God allowed me to have this week to rest and recuperate, especially since Adam was here last week and I was SO ridiculously busy. God definitely knows what we need when we need it and I am so grateful for that.

Because of quitting, I’m getting back to the mindset that God is my provider. I never really lost that thought, but it definitely went on the back burner while I was making “lots” of money. Having a FT job where I made $1600 a month, on top of the $800 or so from the PT job, I felt like I was living on top. Of course, living on top didn’t necessarily mean budgeting the best. But, I feel like, for the last 2 months I budgeted better than I ever have my entire life. However, I know that next time I budget, I need to be stricter on my guidelines. Like, making a set amount of how much I’d be saving a month for food & going out instead of just replacing it every time I got money. That’s one thing I learned during my budgeting stretch… I also need to remember that I need to budget the money that I get now even more. Going from my old income to 1/3 of it is going to be a difficult adjustment, but one that I think I can make work. Obviously I will NEED to make it work, but I’m not worried too much about that as I know God is providing for me and it’s not a big deal to get less of an income. I am also looking for other jobs… PT would be great, ON would be great, especially if this ON is a sleep position… We’ll see what God has in-store.

In regards to budgeting, I need to make sure that I have enough money for Nov, Dec, & Jan rent. This may be a little tricky since Erin doesn’t have much schooling during the month of December. I’ll need to be extra budgeting-wise during November. Because of this new change in my life, I don’t think I’ll be going home for Thanksgiving or Christmas. At least, that’s what it looks like at this point. I never know what things God will do, but in my heart and mind, this is what I’m planning. That means that this will be the second year in a row that I will miss the “family aspect” of these special occasions. Last year I also missed Thanksgiving and Christmas with my mom, sister and brother. It was very different. I had the hardest time with Christmas because I didn’t know what I was going to be doing. And I didn’t really get any Christmas gifts. Now, yes, the reason for the season is not the gifts and yes, I had not gotten much the past 2 Christmases before but it’s different the first time you’re not with your family, ya know. Its different when you’re butting in on other people’s celebrations. I just felt… lost. Yes, I think that would be the proper word. It was sad and disheartening and I’m still not looking forward to that this year, but I definitely think it will be less bothersome. I’ll tell ya, though; I can’t wait to have a family of my own and to make my own traditions and excitements. :)

One of my goals in this season of having one job is to get into the Word more and to seek God on a much deeper basis. I also want to get into reading books that stimulate my mind and help me to search for that deeper connection. These books can be overtly spiritual or not at all. I’m just planning on finding God in everything I read and in all that I do. It’s comforting to know that he will never leave me nor forsake me; that he is always near to me and has given ear to my requests, that He lets MY prayers come before Him. He makes strong my heart and brings comfort when I am weak and troubled. So, in this time of spare time, I strive to use it, not just for idle things, for sleeping or watching tv or playing games, but to first and foremost find Him and love Him; because He FIRST loved me. I want to find Him in my quiet time, in my fellowship time, in my babysitting time, in my resting time, in my daily nannying time, in my cooking time, in my music-listening time, all the time, every time. That’s my prayer: that when I seek Him I will indeed find Him.

God,
I’m asking that in this time, I would ask you for things and that you would give them to me. Not things that further me or bring me glory, but those things that remind me of whom you are and that show others of your mercy and power. You tell me that if I seek I will in turn find. I’m asking that while trying to seek you out that You would come to me. You would show me who You are in ways that I never imagined. I thank You that the ability to ask and seek and knock was given to me through the sacrifice of Your own son. That He died on the cross in order to bridge the gap that was between You and I. That I can have communion and fellowship with You as if You were right here next to me physically. Lord, I don’t know which doors I will be knocking on in this season of my life, but I thank You that You have gone before me to ready them. Lord, You are GOOD and your MERCY goes on forever.

God, I thank you for your infinite wisdom and your divine placement of Robin in my life at the bus stop on Sunday. Your providence amazes me. I’m so blessed to know that you hear our prayers that they rise up into your ears. You heard her prayers and gave thought to her when she was down to her last ounce of strength. She was troubled by an abusive partner, one who beat her and kept her from others, determining how she was to live. He was cruel to her in many ways. Robin was deeply wounded and was scared for her life, with deep fear she was covered saying: “if only I had wings like a dove! For then I would go in flight from here and be at rest”. Lord, you gave her wings and allowed her to get out from her situation. You gave her the strength and determination to leave, to end the vicious cycle that had been going on for a long time. I pray you continue to guide Robin, Father. Bring her to a place of restoration and peace. I pray against her friends and family speaking evil to her saying “it’s your fault” or “you deserved it”. Give her a sanctuary and remind her that it’s not her fault. I praise you for newness in her life, for a new start. Remind her of her past life, God, as we can’t know where were going if we don’t know where we’ve been. Be her savior, God. I thank you and praise you for taking her soul away from the attack and for giving her peace. Please remind me on a daily basis that you will be my support if I bring my cares to you. You won’t let me be moved, God. Bring opportunities for growth in Robin’s life, for job skills and a way to earn a living; to become self-sufficient but completely dependent on you. In the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.

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Change is changing

So, I blogged early [and just posted today] about losing my job as a nanny. I got it back a few days after I wrote that. She texted me and said that her friend was starting a new job and she wanted to know if I, or anyone I knew, was looking for an  overnight nanny job. I, of course, JUMPED on that chance. Money is money. I feel like I've done a good job not letting anger or past feelings get in the way.


I've been nannying for them for just about three weeks now. The pay went down a little, but that's completely okay. It's still more than enough to get by on.


Getting the nanny job back gave me the ability and confidence to know that when I had to move, I would be able to. It's funny how God gives and takes away to reinforce that he is my provider and nothing else. I will say that I do get frustrated with Him at times, it's annoying to have to live like this... nervous about living stuff and the like...


Speaking of moving, move I did. I found this cute little place [on Craigslist with a few roommates] that I looked at Monday the 30th, declared that I wanted to move there on the 30th, and moved everything in the next day [the day I had to be out of my apt.]. I'm living in a house on 33rd & Adams. This is located near two bus stops, and many Providence people. I can take the bus straight to Prov, too! OH! AND I'm located a block and a half away from a fire department. I'm excited for that! :) Helllllllooooo, manly men!


There was some drama in the housing/moving department, but I will refrain from any details. It was stupid, though, but it's now resolved. At least in one regard... [cryptic, I know!]


So, now, i am moved into this place [i will be looking for something new come April, then moving for Grad school in August [another 4 month pattern...blah]. Perhaps I will move to GS sooner than later. I'm still debating on which grad school to go to. I'm looking at [for the moment] a place in Seattle and Connecticut. I really want to be by the water again. And to move somewhere new. I want this exciting change. I'm also sorting through a few different places, too, to see if they're somewhere I would like to go.


Life is settling down a little at this moment, for which I am thankful. I still have to finish unpacking, which I'm trying to put off as long as possible, honestly. Haha. That's so bad! I have no motivation or self-determination to do so. I'm incorrigible, truthfully.


I'm leaving in a few minutes to an eventful night. A Taste Of Colorado, a BBQ, and a Bonfire all in one night. I'm OH SO EXCITED!

My monthly blog

: ) So, apparently I subconsciously blog about once a month if I'm lucky.
Oh life and my inability to be consistent... : )

Life: CRAZY!
God: AMAZING & ANNOYING.
Work: FINALLY!
Money: BARELY?
Family: GREAT.
Spiritually: MEDIOCRE.
Friends: PLENTIFUL

So, the month of July had it's ups and downs, goods and bads, lessons and learnings.

I lost my job as a nanny. She gave it away to her friend who needed to make some quick cash. That was a bummer. It made me kind of mad, honestly. It was rude and inconsiderate.

Adventures in sickland

This week, I got sick.
It started out Saturday night into Sunday morning. I woke up with a fever, earache, & a headache.
Let me tell you. Neither were too fun.
I went to church Sunday morning and wound up leaving a little early.
I went to walmart, bought some ibuprofen, cough drops & a thermometer.
All three things helped a lot.
But I still didn't get better. I began to get a sore throat, a cough, phlegm, etc.
So, I didn't babysit for small group. and I didn't go into work.
I had trouble sleeping. Honestly, I'm not sure how much I slept at all this past week.

The same thing went on Monday/Monday night. I didn't go into work.
I didn't work at all this past week. From Sunday night until Saturday night.
That was a bummer. A big bummer.

Tuesday I went to Urgent Care. I had to do something about feeling like crap.
So, $142 later, I was diagnosed with what I already knew - strep throat - and was started my anti-biotics. I got progressively better from there and now, the only remnant I have is some medication and a bit of a cough.

I didn't eat very much this week - had a bit of trouble keeping some foods down. But I did eat broth, some noodles, and a lot of grapes.

Thursday I went linedancing. It was a bit of a stretch, but i needed to get out and about. It was good for me, to exert myself. Friday I went out with friends. but didn't keep down what I ate - that was a little gross. I didn't like that at all.

I finally went back to work yesterday! I was so thankful for that! A week without income - just expenditures, one BIG expenditure!!

But here I am - feeling better and making money.

Life is so different now!

Hi there :)

I realized that I never posted updates...

I am living at Seabrooke's. It is good. Kelly is good.

I have a job! I am a nanny doing overnights with a 4 month old baby boy named Rafi. He doesn't sleep though the night yet, so I am staying with him and waking up to feed and change him. It's a good job, and I really enjoy it. However, it is only until he starts sleeping through the night [his older brother who is now 2 didn't start sleeping through the night until he was 10 months... I'm hoping this is a similar situation ;) ]

I started April 17 and was able to afford rent for May here at the house.
It's awesome to be able to live on my own! And by that I mean with Kelly. :)
It's great to be able to afford all the things I need and to be able to help people out with money... :) I can buy groceries, pay my bills, afford rent, and spend money to help others out when they need it. It's fantastic!

Updates...

I have this thing where I begin to write a blog entry and then I don't have the pahzazz to finish it so it sits in my blog as a draft.

I realize that it's been a while since I've posted a real, true to life, entry. So, without further ado, here goes:

.:| In a few more than 20 days, the plan is to leave the McCall's and go somewhere - possibly Seabrooke's house to live for the majority of the summer.
.:|At this point, I don't have a job, other than babysitting, which allows me to pay my bills and have a little extra left over for spending. Nor do I have any money saved up to be able to pay for rent at Seabrooke's.

.:|I posted an ad on Craigslist advertising myself as a nanny for the near future and beyond. I came home tonight to see a response from a lady asking me when I could start.
.:|I just emailed her back letting her know that I can start immediately and asking her about her family and what she is looking for in her nanny, along with a few other questions. At this point, I am not assuming that I will get this job, rather I am assuming that it is a scam and that I won't get it and so on and so forth. Now, don't get me wrong, I am not being overtly pessimistic, I am just being a realist and knowing that I can't just assume that it is going to work out.
.:|I do, however, know that God has a plan for me and that I can rely on Him and trust in the fact that He loves me and knows what I need when I need it. He is my provider, not anything else, and I relish in the knowledge that He can never let me down.
.:|So, at this point, it's a wait and see game. I made the first move, she responded, and then I made the third move. We'll see how it pans out from here...

.:|A goal that I have, dependent on whether I get this nanny job or another job for that matter, for this summer is to save up enough money to get a vehicle. I would love to be able to get something fairly new, so that I don't have to worry about fixing it up a whole lot, but I'll really take anything...

.:|I am attempting to learn spanish, though it's not coming along so well. Kelsey and I are going to use Rosetta Stone software to try and get better at it. It's a goal of mine to learn the spanish language and to be able to interact with people of Hispanic culture.

.:|Providence is so bueno. I am still involved in a community group and am enjoying getting to know God better and also getting to know the people there better. I am involved in a few give ministries through Prov. including nursery, refreshments, greeting, and an overview of the give ministries. I start a new position with the nursery this month and that is a teaching role. That just means that I will be giving the lessons to the kiddos ages 3+ once a month. I'm excited about this new role!
.:|Regarding the refreshments, that just means that I set up the bagels in the back once or twice a month. Greeting means I stand outside welcoming people to Providence and giving them bulletins with a smile and a hug.
.:|The overview of the give ministries means that I am calling certain members of the church and making sure that they are involved with a give ministry themselves.

.:|I am continuing to look into going to Haiti for a missions trip this summer, though I'm not so sure it is going to work out. I would love to go, but whatever happens will happen. A lot will depend on fundraising - though i haven't sent out flyers about that yet : ( If I do not get to go, it will be okay. I know that there are many able bodied persons who will go and do great things there!

.:|I have somethings to think about regarding housing situations in the later future. For instance, I'm not sure how the whole Seabrooke thing is going to work out past the summer months. It's something that God is working on and in and it will be resolved when it needs to be resolved...

.:|Other wise, life is going well. It's keeping me on my toes and providing me with plenty of life changing experiences. My trust in the Lord grows stronger daily, as I wait on Him to provide me with what I need. I know that in the end He will get all the glory! He deserves it and I trust in Him and what He is doing in and through my life.